Final Instructions: Unexpected Love

Final Instructions: Unexpected Love

(Fifth Sunday after Easter)

May 25, 2025*

By Pastor John Partridge

John 13:31-35                        Acts 11:1-18               Revelation 21:1-6

As a child, when our family traveled together, there were six of us. And, since my brothers were five, ten and twelve years older than I am, the spread between our ages meant that we often had vastly different abilities and interests. As such, it was common for us to arrive at one of our destinations, agree to a meeting later in the day, and split up to take part in various activities at the amusement park, campground, or wherever we were visiting. Our youth groups have done the same thing, we would arrive at a place, meet in a huddle, agree to meet later, and then set out in pairs or groups to enjoy Cedar Point or some other activity.

More seriously, you can imagine some of the meetings that happened before the invasion of Normandy on D-Day, during which many leaders met together to discuss last minute plans and, with the technology available in 1943, they would not meet or communicate again until well after they had landed and moved inland into France. In their last minutes together, whether they were parents, youth leaders, or generals and admirals overseeing the invasion, those leaders had to communicate their final instructions and ensure that everyone in the group understood what needed to happen until the time that they could meet again. It is that sort of picture that I keep in mind whenever we read the stories of Jesus’ last encounters with his disciples before and after his crucifixion. One of these is found in our first scripture for today in John 13:31-35. Moments after Judas leaves the room on his way to betray Jesus to the Jewish authorities, we hear this:

31 When he was gone, Jesus said, “Now the Son of Man is glorified, and God is glorified in him. 32 If God is glorified in him, God will glorify the Son in himself, and will glorify him at once.

33 “My children, I will be with you only a little longer. You will look for me, and just as I told the Jews, so I tell you now: Where I am going, you cannot come.

34 “A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. 35 By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.”

As soon as Judas leaves, Jesus tells his disciples that no matter what things might look like, he is about to be glorified and because of him, God will be glorified. Next, Jesus emphasizes that he will not be with them much longer, and that they will no longer be able to follow him. And, with that in mind, Jesus wants to emphasize a final instruction, even saying that he is commanding them to do it.

What is Jesus’ vitally important final command?

To love one another.

Jesus says that just as I have loved you, so must you love each other. Just as I have been compassionate, so must you be compassionate. Just as I have shown empathy, so must you show empathy. Just as I have brought you comfort, so must you comfort one another. Just as I have been generous, so must you be generous. In every way that I have shown you love, you should pattern your lives after that example and love one another.

And the disciples, at least some of them, get it. They understand and apply what Jesus has taught them. So much so, that when Peter meets with Gentiles, eats with them, witnesses to them, tells them about Jesus, and baptizes them, the Jewish believers get in his face and criticize him for spending time with those people. We hear that story in Acts 11:1-18 where it says:

11:1 The apostles and the believers throughout Judea heard that the Gentiles also had received the word of God. So when Peter went up to Jerusalem, the circumcised believers criticized him and said, “You went into the house of uncircumcised men and ate with them.”

Starting from the beginning, Peter told them the whole story: “I was in the city of Joppa praying, and in a trance, I saw a vision. I saw something like a large sheet being let down from heaven by its four corners, and it came down to where I was. I looked into it and saw four-footed animals of the earth, wild beasts, reptiles, and birds. Then I heard a voice telling me, ‘Get up, Peter. Kill and eat.’

“I replied, ‘Surely not, Lord! Nothing impure or unclean has ever entered my mouth.’

“The voice spoke from heaven a second time, ‘Do not call anything impure that God has made clean.’ 10 This happened three times, and then it was all pulled up to heaven again.

11 “Right then three men who had been sent to me from Caesarea stopped at the house where I was staying. 12 The Spirit told me to have no hesitation about going with them. These six brothers also went with me, and we entered the man’s house. 13 He told us how he had seen an angel appear in his house and say, ‘Send to Joppa for Simon who is called Peter. 14 He will bring you a message through which you and all your household will be saved.’

15 “As I began to speak, the Holy Spirit came on them as he had come on us at the beginning. 16 Then I remembered what the Lord had said: ‘John baptized withwater, but you will be baptized withthe Holy Spirit.’ 17 So if God gave them the same gift he gave us who believed in the Lord Jesus Christ, who was I to think that I could stand in God’s way?”

18 When they heard this, they had no further objections and praised God, saying, “So then, even to Gentiles God has granted repentance that leads to life.”

In the end, what was it that Peter did that the other Jewish believers had a tough time accepting? In the end, what Peter did was to take Jesus at this word, obey his command, and love the people that accepted him. Peter was given a vision from God that he should witness to the Gentiles, although he resisted, he eventually obeyed God, went to their home from Joppa, shared the story of the gospel with them, and witnessed the Holy Spirit come upon them just it had on the followers of Jesus in Jerusalem on the day of Pentecost.

And finally, we come to a message of the future that we hear from John’s vision in Revelation 21:1-6 where he proclaims:

21:1 Then I saw “a new heaven and a new earth,” for the first heaven and the first earth had passed away, and there was no longer any sea. I saw the Holy City, the new Jerusalem, coming down out of heaven from God, prepared as a bride beautifully dressed for her husband. And I heard a loud voice from the throne saying, “Look! God’s dwelling place is now among the people, and he will dwell with them. They will be his people, and God himself will be with them and be their God. ‘He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death’or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away.”

He who was seated on the throne said, “I am making everything new!” Then he said, “Write this down, for these words are trustworthy and true.”

He said to me: “It is done. I am the Alpha and the Omega, the Beginning, and the End. To the thirsty I will give water without cost from the spring of the water of life.

Here, Jesus says that he is, already, in the process of making everything new. As of now, God has made his home among this people. The spirit of God no longer lives in the temple in Jerusalem or in the Ark of the Covenant, or up in heaven, or someplace far away. God has sent his spirit to take up residence inside of each one of his followers. We don’t have to go anywhere to have access to God because he is always right where we are. But Jesus also says that because he is the Alpha and the Omega, the beginning, and the end, he offers the gift of life to anyone that is thirsty. That means that there is no exclusion, that anyone who desires God, thirsts for holiness, or searches for God will be given access and welcomed into God’s family. In a world that emphasizes division between people of different races, or nationality, that draws borders with bold lines, and that makes lists of needed qualifications to be the “right kind” of people, Jesus simply says, “If you are thirsty, I will give you the water of life.”

The barriers that had divided the people were torn down.

The division between men and women in ministry and culture were being torn down.

The rich were shocked that Jesus would preach to the poor.

The Jews were shocked that Jesus included the Gentiles.

The powerful were shocked that Jesus loved the powerless.

Free people were surprised that Jesus included slaves.

But Jesus’ final instruction was not to build walls, it was to love one another in all the ways that he has loved us. The only measure by which we test anyone is whether or not they believe.

Jesus simply says, “If you are thirsty, I will give you the water of life.”

Set aside the world of the first century and its divisions between Jews and Greeks, slaves and free. Today, right now, in our present reality, imagine for a moment what that command means to the barriers that are being built between people by our culture, our governments, and our churches, and imagine with me how Jesus calls us to obey his command to love one another and how our obedience should tear down the walls that divide us.

May we, like Jesus, be so loving, that we can say to the people around us, “If you are thirsty, I will give you the water of life.”


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