
Addicted to Rules
October 08, 2023*
By Pastor John Partridge
Exodus 20:1-4, 7-9, 12-20 Matthew 21:33-46 Philippians 3:4b-14
In 1985 radio stations everywhere were playing the debut of Robert Palmer’s new hit song, Addicted to Love. That song will be familiar to those of us in a particular age group, but it begins like this:
The lights are on, but you’re not home
Your mind is not your own
Your heart sweats, your body shakes
Another kiss is what it takes
You can’t sleep, you can’t eat
There’s no doubt, you’re in deep
Your throat is tight, you can’t breathe
Another kiss is all you need.
Whoa, you like to think that you’re immune to the stuff, oh yeah
It’s closer to the truth to say you can’t get enough
You know you’re gonna have to face it, you’re addicted to love.
Robert Palmer may have taken a certain amount of artistic license, but just this week I had a conversation with a friend about how some people simply can’t stand to live alone, and that can lead them to making bad choices and being in a relationship with someone who isn’t good for them, and sometimes one bad relationship after another.
Addiction, of any kind, even an addition to something that is normally good, can be a bad thing. Addiction, even to something good, takes things too far and winds up being harmful. And that’s one of the things that we will find as we read and think about today’s scriptures. We begin with what God intended for good, the ten commandments. Most of these commandments are regarded as good things, even by people who do not share our faith, and even by people who have no faith at all. Prohibitions against theft, murder, adultery, and false witness, just to name a few, are almost inarguably good things. But can such prohibitions go too far? Before we get into that, let’s begin at the beginning and just read the words of Exodus 20:1-4, 7-9, 12-20.
20:1 And God spoke all these words:
2 “I am the Lord your God, who brought you out of Egypt, out of the land of slavery.
3 “You shall have no other gods before me.
4 “You shall not make for yourself an image in the form of anything in heaven above or on the earth beneath or in the waters below.
7 “You shall not misuse the name of the Lord your God, for the Lord will not hold anyone guiltless who misuses his name.
8 “Remember the Sabbath day by keeping it holy. 9 Six days you shall labor and do all your work,
12 “Honor your father and your mother, so that you may live long in the land the Lord your God is giving you.
13 “You shall not murder.
14 “You shall not commit adultery.
15 “You shall not steal.
16 “You shall not give false testimony against your neighbor.
17 “You shall not covet your neighbor’s house. You shall not covet your neighbor’s wife, or his male or female servant, his ox or donkey, or anything that belongs to your neighbor.”
18 When the people saw the thunder and lightning and heard the trumpet and saw the mountain in smoke, they trembled with fear. They stayed at a distance 19 and said to Moses, “Speak to us yourself and we will listen. But do not have God speak to us or we will die.”
20 Moses said to the people, “Do not be afraid. God has come to test you, so that the fear of God will be with you to keep you from sinning.”
Saying things like, “don’t take things that don’t belong to you,” “don’t murder or hurt other people, or that it’s not good to even wish you had the nice things that your neighbor has,” are not that controversial. Even honoring your parents, when they deserve it, is something that most of us can generally agree on. But we can understand why people who do not share our faith, or who don’t believe in God, would take issue with rules about gods, idols, taking God’s name in vain, or keeping the sabbath. Other than those rules that are specific to our worship of our God, I think most people would agree that these are reasonable rules and, in fact, most of these rules end up being codified in the laws of cities, states, and nations around the world.
But that’s where the trouble starts. Or, perhaps, if we think of it another way, perhaps that’s where the addiction starts. In an attempt to ensure that the people of Israel would always follow these ten rules, the leaders of Israel wrote more rules that regulated life, or put fences around the rules, so that people wouldn’t, even accidentally, break these ten commandments. (pause) But even that wasn’t enough for some people. After Israel had been carried into captivity in Babylon for seventy years, returned to Israel, and rebuilt their nation, the leaders began to understand that their exile had been caused by Israel’s disobedience to God. And so, at some point, the people that we know as the Pharisees in the time of the New Testament accumulated an even longer list of rules that built fences around the fences that had been built around the rules. And while some of the Pharisees were legitimately trying to keep Israel on the straight and narrow and stay close to God, others began to become more devoted to the rules than they were to the God they were supposed to worship. And it was exactly that sort of thing that had the Pharisees up in arms about the popularity that Jesus had with the common people and the background to exchanges such as the one we find in Matthew 21:33-46, (which immediately follows our passage from last week in which Jesus said that Prostitutes and tax collectors were getting into heaven before the Pharisees)where we hear Jesus say:
33 “Listen to another parable: There was a landowner who planted a vineyard. He put a wall around it, dug a winepress in it and built a watchtower. Then he rented the vineyard to some farmers and moved to another place. 34 When the harvest time approached, he sent his servants to the tenants to collect his fruit.
35 “The tenants seized his servants; they beat one, killed another, and stoned a third. 36 Then he sent other servants to them, more than the first time, and the tenants treated them the same way. 37 Last of all, he sent his son to them. ‘They will respect my son,’ he said.
38 “But when the tenants saw the son, they said to each other, ‘This is the heir. Come, let’s kill him and take his inheritance.’ 39 So they took him and threw him out of the vineyard and killed him.
40 “Therefore, when the owner of the vineyard comes, what will he do to those tenants?”
41 “He will bring those wretches to a wretched end,” they replied, “and he will rent the vineyard to other tenants, who will give him his share of the crop at harvest time.”
42 Jesus said to them, “Have you never read in the Scriptures:
“‘The stone the builders rejected
has become the cornerstone;
the Lord has done this,
and it is marvelous in our eyes’?
43 “Therefore I tell you that the kingdom of God will be taken away from you and given to a people who will produce its fruit. 44 Anyone who falls on this stone will be broken to pieces; anyone on whom it falls will be crushed.”
45 When the chief priests and the Pharisees heard Jesus’ parables, they knew he was talking about them. 46 They looked for a way to arrest him, but they were afraid of the crowd because the people held that he was a prophet.
One of the first things that we should probably notice is that Jesus may very well be foretelling his own death in this parable since it isn’t hard to understand that as the son of God, he is the son of the landowner of Israel. The second thing to notice is that, even though the priests and the Pharisees may not have understood Jesus’ allusion to being the son of the landowner, they clearly understood that he was talking about them and that they were the ungrateful tenants in the story. Everyone understood that Jesus was accusing Israel’s leadership of not giving to God what was expected and due. The accusation is clear that the leaders had violated several of the commandments, that they had put themselves ahead of God, that they had made money, power, and influence into an idol, and that they were, generally, unfaithful.
The contrast to the priests and the Pharisees is found in the life of Paul, after his encounter with Jesus on the road to Damascus. After Paul’s conversion, he sees the rules, and his former addiction to the rules, in an entirely different light. In Philippians 3:4b-14 he says…
If someone else thinks they have reasons to put confidence in the flesh, I have more: 5 circumcised on the eighth day, of the people of Israel, of the tribe of Benjamin, a Hebrew of Hebrews; in regard to the law, a Pharisee; 6 as for zeal, persecuting the church; as for righteousness based on the law, faultless.
7 But whatever were gains to me I now consider loss for the sake of Christ. 8 What is more, I consider everything a loss because of the surpassing worth of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord, for whose sake I have lost all things. I consider them garbage, that I may gain Christ 9 and be found in him, not having a righteousness of my own that comes from the law, but that which is through faith inChrist—the righteousness that comes from God on the basis of faith. 10 I want to know Christ—yes, to know the power of his resurrection and participation in his sufferings, becoming like him in his death, 11 and so, somehow, attaining to the resurrection from the dead.
12 Not that I have already obtained all this, or have already arrived at my goal, but I press on to take hold of that for which Christ Jesus took hold of me. 13 Brothers and sisters, I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, 14 I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus.
Paul was a Pharisee. He followed the rules, he was born into the right kind of family, went to the right kind of schools with the right kind of teachers, he, and his family, followed all the prescribed rituals, he dedicated his life to enforcing the rules, he hunted down Jews who had chosen to follow Jesus and prosecuted, and imprisoned them for their failure to follow the rules. He was there watching the coats of the men who stoned Stepehen in Jerusalem and, I think we can safely say, that he was addicted to the rules. But, after he met Jesus, his addiction was broken, and he saw the rules in an entirely different light. I don’t want you to misunderstand, Paul still followed most of those rules. He still thought that they were an important part of his faith, but the rules were no longer an addiction, and they were no longer something that was more important than faith. His addiction, and the value that he once put on the rules, money, power, and influence, he now valued no more than garbage. In fact, the word that we translate as “garbage” is the name of the valley below Jerusalem where the sewers emptied, where dead animals were thrown, and where the remains of sacrifices were burned. It was a place of disgusting filth and that was the value that Paul now placed on his former addiction.
Addiction, of any kind, even an addition to something that is normally good, takes things too far and winds up being harmful, and that’s true whether you’re addicted to love, rules, tradition, sex, money, power, politics, authority, fame, fortune, comfort, prestige, sports, hobbies, family, or anything else that you might put ahead of God.
God said ““I am the Lord your God… You shall have no other gods beforeme.”
Even if those gods seem like good things, we cannot put them ahead of God.
It’s important that we get it right.
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