Jeremiah 1:4-10 Luke 4:21-30 1 Corinthians 13:1-13
Nearly all of us have, at some time or other, had a conversation with our parents, grandparents, or one of their friends, in which we may have asked a question that somehow made them uncomfortable, and their response was “Well, I knew your parents before you were even a twinkle in your daddy’s eye” or “Child, I knew you when you were just this high.” But no matter what words they used, or how humorously they pushed it off, the message was clear, “I’m older than you, so don’t question my choices in life.”
We’ve all experienced that sort of brush-off, but to be fair, as we get older, some of our own bad, or even marginal, decisions can sometimes be a sore spot that we don’t care to have questioned. We are open about some of those. I understand myself well enough to know that I am not a type ‘A’ personality, I am not ultra-career driven. Sure, maybe I could have been more successful in advancing in my engineering career, but when I had to choose between spending long hours at work and spending time with my children, work came second, and some people at my place of employment didn’t like the choice that made. Yes, I was angry at first, but I can sleep at night.
As we read our scriptures for this morning, we will find some conversations that sound like the brush-offs we heard from older adults in our own lives. And just like the ones we experienced; these conversations were excuses for the choices that those adults had made. But we will also hear some sound advice on how we can make genuinely good choices about how we live our lives… choices that will let us sleep soundly at night.
We begin this morning with the prophet Jeremiah, whose words sound a lot like those older adults in our lives, but since Jeremiah is speaking for God, those words carry a different meaning for us and for our excuses. Reading Jeremiah 1:4-10, it says:
4 The word of the Lord came to me, saying,
5 “Before I formed you in the womb I knew you,
before you were born, I set you apart;
I appointed you as a prophet to the nations.”
6 “Alas, Sovereign Lord,” I said, “I do not know how to speak; I am too young.”
7 But the Lord said to me, “Do not say, ‘I am too young.’ You must go to everyone I send you to and say whatever I command you. 8 Do not be afraid of them, for I am with you and will rescue you,” declares the Lord.
9 Then the Lord reached out his hand and touched my mouth and said to me, “I have put my words in your mouth. 10 See, today I appoint you over nations and kingdoms to uproot and tear down, to destroy and overthrow, to build and to plant.”
God spoke to Jeremiah and said, I have known you all along. I have known you since before you were born, not just because I knew your parents, but because I knew everything about you, because I knew who I created you to be, and what I called you to do. Before you were born, I knew about the scar you would get on your knee when you fell as a child, I knew who your friends would be, and who you would marry. I knew every decision you would make and all that I had made you capable of doing. But even so, Jeremiah immediately begins to argue with God. Granted, at the time of his calling, it is possible that Jeremiah was as young as twelve, so arguing that he is too young to carry messages from God to the king and to the royalty and ruling powers of Israel.
But God knows what he is doing.
God tells Jeremiah not to be afraid, because when he goes where God commands, and speaks the words that God has sent, God will walk with him, protect him, and rescue him from trouble. Then God touches Jeremiah’s twelve-year-old mouth, puts his words in Jeremiah’s mouth, and appoints him as his messenger that will carry words of power to kings and to nations.
And then we rejoin the gospel story from last week, as Jesus read the scriptures in his hometown of Nazareth. You will remember that Jesus read a passage from the prophet Isaiah that spoke of the coming messiah and then Jesus announced that the scripture that he had read was being fulfilled in their presence. And by doing so, Jesus was claiming that he was the Messiah that God had promised, and the people didn’t take it very well. We rejoin the story right where we left off as we read from Luke 4:21-30.
21 He began by saying to them, “Today this scripture is fulfilled in your hearing.”
22 All spoke well of him and were amazed at the gracious words that came from his lips. “Isn’t this Joseph’s son?” they asked.
23 Jesus said to them, “Surely you will quote this proverb to me: ‘Physician, heal yourself!’ And you will tell me, ‘Do here in your hometown what we have heard that you did in Capernaum.’”
24 “Truly I tell you,” he continued, “no prophet is accepted in his hometown. 25 I assure you that there were many widows in Israel in Elijah’s time, when the sky was shut for three and a half years and there was a severe famine throughout the land. 26 Yet Elijah was not sent to any of them, but to a widow in Zarephath in the region of Sidon. 27 And there were many in Israel with leprosy in the time of Elisha the prophet, yet not one of them was cleansed—only Naaman the Syrian.”
28 All the people in the synagogue were furious when they heard this. 29 They got up, drove him out of the town, and took him to the brow of the hill on which the town was built, in order to throw him off the cliff. 30 But he walked right through the crowd and went on his way.
As soon as Jesus makes the claim that the people are witnessing the fulfillment of Isaiah’s scriptures, they begin to make excuses. Their assumption, is that nothing important can happen in their little town, that no one important can come from there, and that clearly, if Jesus had been anyone important he would have been born to an important family, or a rich family, or that someone would have recognized that Jesus was somebody important before now. But because of the biases that they carried, and the because of the decisions that they had already made, they immediately started to say those words that we have all heard before, “I knew you when you were little,” “I knew your parents before you were born,” “Isn’t this Joseph’s son, the kid we watched grow up?” “How could he be anyone important?”
And Jesus reminds them that every prophet has suffered from the same problem, the blindness of the people, and the town that knew them best. And, because of that blindness, God often sent those prophets to do miraculous things somewhere else or to perform miracles for other people, even for Israel’s enemies. Not surprisingly, having already been in a bad mood and making excuses, Jesus’ speech makes them angrier still, and they drove him out of town toward the cliffs which today are about a mile and a half from town, with the mob having every intention of throwing Jesus off the precipice. But Jesus, somehow, just walks through the crowd and goes on his way.
What? Does that mean that a mob suddenly because reasonable? Probably not. We understand mobs cannot be reasoned with. Does it mean that Jesus became invisible or somehow paralyzed the crowd, or used some other superpower? Honestly, we don’t know. But something amazing, even miraculous happened, and Jesus just walked away.
Okay, so we know that we, even God’s prophets, are human and like to make excuses. And we know that we have a habit of discrediting or even getting angry at the people that question our bad choices. But how do we make better choices? How can we test ourselves when we make decisions so that we can make better choices that let us sleep at night? And that is exactly what the Apostle Paul tells us as he writes to the church in Corinth in 1 Corinthians 13:1-13 when he says:
13:1If I speak in the languagesof men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. 2 If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. 3 If I give all I possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship that I may boast, but do not have love, I gain nothing.
4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
8 Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. 9 For we know in part, and we prophesy in part, 10but when completeness comes, what is in part disappears. 11 When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me. 12 For now we see only a reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.
13 And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.
Paul says that the answer… is love. There are two questions that we need to ask ourselves when we make important choices, and they both have to do with love. Before we decide, we should consider our motivation for choosing to act the way we do, or to do the thing we think that we want to do. The first question is, what is our motivation towards others? And the answer is… love. Our motivation should not simply be selfish at the expense of others, our motivation should consider the effects of our decision and be loving towards others. And the second question is similar, what is our motivation towards God? Again, our motivation cannot be selfish at God’s expense and should consider the effects that it will have on God, and on God’s kingdom. Simply put, it isn’t that God doesn’t want us to be happy, or that God doesn’t want us to have nice things, it is simply that if we want to make choices that let us sleep at night, we should consider whether those choices are loving, towards God, and towards others. Even when we are compelled to make choices that hurt other people, we can be loving and try to find ways that hurt those people less, or which hurt fewer people. We must consider how, and in what ways, we can be the most loving.
Paul says that if we want to make good choices, there are always three things to consider, faith, hope, and love, but the most important is always… love.
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