Fear, Cowardice, and Moving Forward

Fear, Cowardice, and Moving Forward

September 27, 2026*

By Pastor John Partridge

Exodus 17:1-7            Matthew 21:23-32     Philippians 2:1-13

Today we start out, not with a quiz, but with a question that cannot be answered except for in the moment that you experience it. The question is this…

… What do you do with your fear?

How do you react when you are afraid? The famous scientific insight that everyone knows about human physiology is the “fight of flight” reaction. As soon as the amygdala of our brain detects a threat, our fear triggers a rush of adrenaline and cortisol, our heart beats faster, blood flows away from the higher thinking parts of our brain, away from our skin, away from our stomach, and instead flows to provide more oxygen to our major muscle groups. The result primes our bodies to either run for our lives or to fight like it’s the end of the world.

But which will it be?

Planning and training can have an influence, but every individual is unique and it is difficult to know how they will react until faced with a particular situation. Instinct certainly plays a part just we know that adults of many species, especially parents, are famous for protecting their children, even when facing impossible odds and almost certain death.

In the movie True Grit, John Wayne famously said, “Courage is being scared to death, and saddling up anyway.”

In the end, fear is not a theoretical question. At some point, we all face it. In many ways we face it every day. We experience fear when we go to school for the first time, or on the first day of a new school year, or the first day of new job, or when meeting a new boss, or signing legal forms that obligate us for decades into the future, or just reading or listening to the days news, or trying to balance our checkbooks after buying gasoline and groceries. Fear is not theoretical, it is very real, and we face it, in some form, every day.

But what do we do with it?

And that’s where we rejoin the people of Israel in the story of their exodus from Egypt, this time, having had God provide both quail and manna to eat, they once again grumble against Moses because of the lack of water. We hear this in the words of Exodus 17:1-7:

17:1 The whole Israelite community set out from the Desert of Sin, traveling from place to place as the Lord commanded. They camped at Rephidim, but there was no water for the people to drink. 2 So they quarreled with Moses and said, “Give us water to drink.”

Moses replied, “Why do you quarrel with me? Why do you put the Lord to the test?”

3 But the people were thirsty for water there, and they grumbled against Moses. They said, “Why did you bring us up out of Egypt to make us and our children and livestock die of thirst?”

4 Then Moses cried out to the Lord, “What am I to do with these people? They are almost ready to stone me.”

5 The Lord answered Moses, “Go out in front of the people. Take with you some of the elders of Israel and take in your hand the staff with which you struck the Nile, and go. 6 I will stand there before you by the rock at Horeb. Strike the rock, and water will come out of it for the people to drink.” So, Moses did this in the sight of the elders of Israel. 7 And he called the place Massah [quarrelling] and Meribah [testing] because the Israelites quarreled and because they tested the Lord saying, “Is the Lord among us or not?”

You should remember from last week that the people complained about not having enough food and, once again, God provided. Rational people might expect that after being rescued from slavery, walking across the Red Sea on dry ground, being rescued from the pursuing Egyptian army, and then being fed, daily, with quail and bread from heaven, or manna, that the people would begin to trust that God had a plan to provide for them. But no. Instead, they doubled down on their complaining and now they grumbled and escalated their complaining into outright quarrelling and arguing and accusing Moses, again, of bringing everyone out into the desert to die, this time because they did not have enough water. And, once again, God provides.

As we look at the pattern, we begin to suspect that the reason that the people of Israel complained and argued with Moses was not only because of their lack of trust, but also simply because they were afraid. Yes, Moses was born to Israelite parents, but he was raised in Pharoah’s house and then had been banished from Egypt for forty years. He was unfamiliar to nearly everyone and they had good reason to be hesitant with their trust. Likewise, the people had prayed to the God of Israel for hundreds of years and had little or no experience with God speaking to them in return. Although the acts and miracles of God were powerful and amazing, this too was all a new experience for them. Trust is not something that happens overnight, but hunger, thirst, and death in the desert were things with which they were all familiar. And so, when they tested God and asked, “Is the Lord among us or not?” What they were also asking was, “Do we have reason to be afraid?”

But then, keeping this in mind as we read the story surrounding Jesus’ parable of the two sons in Matthew 21:23-32, we once again see fear as an underlying cause, but in it we see an entirely different reaction to that fear.

23 Jesus entered the temple courts, and, while he was teaching, the chief priests and the elders of the people came to him. “By what authority are you doing these things?” they asked. “And who gave you this authority?”

24 Jesus replied, “I will also ask you one question. If you answer me, I will tell you by what authority I am doing these things. 25 John’s baptism—where did it come from? Was it from heaven, or of human origin?”

They discussed it among themselves and said, “If we say, ‘From heaven,’ he will ask, ‘Then why didn’t you believe him?’ 26 But if we say, ‘Of human origin’—we are afraid of the people, for they all hold that John was a prophet.”

27 So they answered Jesus, “We don’t know.”

Then he said, “Neither will I tell you by what authority I am doing these things.

28 “What do you think? There was a man who had two sons. He went to the first and said, ‘Son, go and work today in the vineyard.’

29 “‘I will not,’ he answered, but later he changed his mind and went.

30 “Then the father went to the other son and said the same thing. He answered, ‘I will, sir,’ but he did not go.

31 “Which of the two did what his father wanted?”

“The first,” they answered.

Jesus said to them, “Truly I tell you, the tax collectors and the prostitutes are entering the kingdom of God ahead of you. 32 For John came to you to show you the way of righteousness, and you did not believe him, but the tax collectors and the prostitutes did. And even after you saw this, you did not repent and believe him.

As the chief priests and the elders of Israel talk among themselves, they admit that they are afraid of the people and that they know that the people believe that John’s baptism was a gift from God. But everyone on both sides knew that the priests and elders did not believe in John’s message of repentance. But believing John’s message carried its own flavor of fear. If the leaders of Israel believed John’s message, as well as the message of Jesus, then they would have to change. Change how they behaved, change how they acted, change how the Temple did business, change their relationships with the people, change their relationship with the Romans, and each of those changes felt just like change feels today. Scary. The leaders of Isreal were not only afraid of the people, not only afraid that the people’s beliefs did not align with their own, but they were deathly afraid of change.

And then Jesus tells them the parable of the two sons and accuses them of being the son that promised obedience but did nothing. Worse, Jesus confronts them with the fabulously insulting truth that tax collectors and prostitutes were entering the Kingdom of God ahead of Israel’s leaders because even when they witnessed how tax collectors and prostitutes were redeemed and brought back to a right relationship with God, they cowardly clung to their fear of change and still refused to believe.

But as we look at these two stories of fear, how should we understand our own? And once again, we find wisdom in the words of the Apostle Paul in his letter to the church in Philippi recorded for us in Philippians 2:1-13 where he says:

2:1 Therefore if you have any encouragement from being united with Christ, if any comfort from his love, if any common sharing in the Spirit, if any tenderness and compassion, 2 then make my joy complete by being like-minded, having the same love, being one in spirit and of one mind. 3 Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, 4 not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others.

5 In your relationships with one another, have the same mindset as Christ Jesus:

6 Who, being in very nature God,
    did not consider equality with God something to be used to his own advantage;
7 rather, he made himself nothing
    by taking the very nature of a servant,
    being made in human likeness.
8 And being found in appearance as a man,
    he humbled himself
    by becoming obedient to death—
        even death on a cross!

9 Therefore God exalted him to the highest place
    and gave him the name that is above every name,
10 that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow,
    in heaven and on earth and under the earth,
11 and every tongue acknowledge that Jesus Christ is Lord,
    to the glory of God the Father.

12 Therefore, my dear friends, as you have always obeyed—not only in my presence, but now much more in my absence—continue to work out your salvation with fear and trembling, 13 for it is God who works in you to will and to act in order to fulfill his good purpose.

Paul concludes an earlier argument with a series of statements that begin with “if you have any” meaning that if you have gained any benefit at all from belonging to Jesus and this community of faith, then find a way to act in unity, to love one another and the people around you, and to set aside selfishness or conceit so that you can look out for the interests of others instead of your own. The people of the church should aspire to treat one another as Jesus would.

But then, as if that wasn’t hard enough, Paul says something even more difficult. He says that we should continue to work out our salvation with fear and trembling. And sometimes when we read this, we wrestle with what he meant by the words “fear and trembling.” And so, here I want to go back to the kinds of fear that we just talked about for the last fifteen minutes and the differences between them. The people of Israel were afraid. They were afraid of starving, they were afraid of dying of thirst in the desert, and they complained about it, and they argued with Moses about it, and they asked what God was going to do about it. We criticize them for complaining, and so does Moses, and so does scripture. But when we compare it to the fear that we saw in Israel’s leaders when they confronted Jesus, there is a stark difference.

When Israel faced Moses, they confronted their fear, they asked God what they should do about it, and together they worked through it. But centuries later when Israel’s leaders faced Jesus, they were just as afraid, they faced similar life changing, culture altering shifts in the world they lived in, but the leaders in the time of Jesus simply refused to believe what they were seeing. They didn’t believe John’s message, they didn’t believe Jesus, and it never occurred to them to ask God what they should do about it or attempt work through it together. Instead, they ignored what they saw in front of them, pretended that the miracles that they witnessed never happened, and moved to protect the status quo.

And that difference, I think, is what Paul means when he says that we should work out our salvation with fear and trembling. Faith isn’t always easy. Sometimes life throws stuff at us that makes us afraid, and sometimes outright terrified, and sometimes our fear makes us face our doubts. But working out our salvation with fear and trembling is a mirror of Israel’s confrontation with Moses. Yes, we are afraid. Yes, we have doubts. But rather than pretending that we have never received good from God, rather than pretending that we have never received benefit, or love, or compassion from being a part of this community of faith, and casting aside our salvation, we should ask God what we should do about it, whining and complaining if necessary, and find a way to work through our fear and our doubts together… with fear and trembling.

“For it is God who works in you” so that you can think and act in ways that fulfil his good purpose for your lives.

It is normal to experience fear.

It’s okay to be afraid.

But what you do with your fear makes all the difference if we are to move forward.

Will it be fight or flight?

Will you cast God aside, or will you work through your fear with him?


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