Decided. Prepared. Hopeful.

Decided. Prepared. Hopeful.

November 08, 2026*

By Pastor John Partridge

Joshua 24:1-3a, 14-25           Matthew 25:1-13       1 Thessalonians 4:13-18

If you have ever made a major, life changing decision, then you understand that doing so is often a part of a process. Yes, there are times when circumstances compel us to do things on the fly and navigate by the seat of our pants, but deep thought and careful planning are normally the hallmarks of major decisions. Few of us asked, or agreed, to be married until after we had thought a great deal about whether doing so was a good idea. Likewise, buying a house is normally preceded by thoughtful consideration of what criteria needed to be met, what neighborhood, what style, what price, is the school system good, does it meet the needs of my present and future family, and so on. And then, having made such a major decision, then there is more planning, how will we pay the loan, how will we move from our present home, when will we file a change of address with the Post Office, banks, and credit cards? And through the process, especially depending on how well the planning went, we will have feelings. Those feelings may be negative or positive. We will be worried and anxious or hopeful and happy. Or something in between, or all those feelings at the same time.

Thus, since it is a major, life-changing decision, we should not be surprised to find that choosing to follow God often follows that same process and results in many of the same feelings. We find that process at work as Joshua stands before the gathered people of Israel and demands that they make a choice to follow the God of Abraham, Isaac, and Moses. Before the people of Israel cross the Jordan River into the land that God had promised, Joshua wants to ensure that no one can claim that they didn’t know what they were doing, that they were just going with the flow, that someone else had decided for them, or that they had somehow just drifted into a responsibility that they didn’t want. We read that story in Joshua 24:1-3a, 14-25:

24:1 Then Joshua assembled all the tribes of Israel at Shechem. He summoned the elders, leaders, judges, and officials of Israel, and they presented themselves before God.

2 Joshua said to all the people, “This is what the Lord, the God of Israel, says: ‘Long ago your ancestors, including Terah the father of Abraham and Nahor, lived beyond the Euphrates River and worshiped other gods. 3 But I took your father Abraham from the land beyond the Euphrates and led him throughout Canaan and gave him many descendants.

14 “Now fear the Lord and serve him with all faithfulness. Throw away the gods your ancestors worshiped beyond the Euphrates River and in Egypt, and serve the Lord. 15 But if serving the Lord seems undesirable to you, then choose for yourselves this day whom you will serve, whether the gods your ancestors served beyond the Euphrates, or the gods of the Amorites, in whose land you are living. But as for me and my household, we will serve the Lord.”

16 Then the people answered, “Far be it from us to forsake the Lord to serve other gods! 17 It was the Lord our God himself who brought us and our parents up out of Egypt, from that land of slavery, and performed those great signs before our eyes. He protected us on our entire journey and among all the nations through which we traveled. 18 And the Lord drove out before us all the nations, including the Amorites, who lived in the land. We too will serve the Lord, because he is our God.”

19 Joshua said to the people, “You are not able to serve the Lord. He is a holy God; he is a jealous God. He will not forgive your rebellion and your sins. 20 If you forsake the Lord and serve foreign gods, he will turn and bring disaster on you and make an end of you, after he has been good to you.”

21 But the people said to Joshua, “No! We will serve the Lord.”

22 Then Joshua said, “You are witnesses against yourselves that you have chosen to serve the Lord.”

“Yes, we are witnesses,” they replied.

23 “Now then,” said Joshua, “throw away the foreign gods that are among you and yield your hearts to the Lord, the God of Israel.”

24 And the people said to Joshua, “We will serve the Lord our God and obey him.”

25 On that day Joshua made a covenant for the people, and there at Shechem he reaffirmed for them decrees and laws. 26 And Joshua recorded these things in the Book of the Law of God. Then he took a large stone and set it up there under the oak near the holy place of the Lord.

Joshua’s speech leads the people through several stages. First, everyone stops what they are doing and gathers in one place to hear him speak. Second, Joshual asks them to consider the idea that their ancestors, prior to Abraham, worshiped other gods, and some of them had done so during their time as slaves in Egypt as well. Because Moses’ offer of freedom was made to every slave that lived in Egypt, not every person that followed him may have been a genetic descendant of Abraham. The people of Israel were now multiethnic and multiracial and now was the moment for them to consider the faith of their ancestors, the faith of their past, and what life had been like since they had followed Moses.

Third, Joshua asks the people to set aside whatever faith and worship their ancestors may have had and decide for themselves whom they will worship. No one is compelled to follow the God of Abraham, Isaac, Jacob, and Moses. Every person is free to leave and live their life as they please. And finally, Joshua pushes back and tells the people that they cannot worship God because they are too rebellious and sinful. Joshua warns them that choosing to follow God could bring disaster upon them if they turn away from him and later follow foreign gods. In this, Joshua presses the people to be certain before they make their choice.

After this, the people make their choice to follow God and Joshua uses legal language declaring that, as if they were giving their testimony in court, they now stand as witnesses, against themselves and against one another, to the decision and to the oath, that they have now made. And the people agree that this is so. But having made a choice to do something is only the beginning and not the end. There are steps that come after our choice has been made and Jesus presses us to understand that when he tells the parable of the foolish virgins in Matthew 25:1-13, saying:

25:1 “At that time the kingdom of heaven will be like ten virgins who took their lamps and went out to meet the bridegroom. 2 Five of them were foolish and five were wise. 3 The foolish ones took their lamps but did not take any oil with them. 4 The wise ones, however, took oil in jars along with their lamps. 5 The bridegroom was a long time in coming, and they all became drowsy and fell asleep.

6 “At midnight, the cry rang out: ‘Here’s the bridegroom! Come out to meet him!’

7 “Then all the virgins woke up and trimmed their lamps. 8 The foolish ones said to the wise, ‘Give us some of your oil; our lamps are going out.’

9 “‘No,’ they replied, ‘there may not be enough for both us and you. Instead, go to those who sell oil and buy some for yourselves.’

10 “But while they were on their way to buy the oil, the bridegroom arrived. The virgins who were ready went in with him to the wedding banquet. And the door was shut.

11 “Later the others also came. ‘Lord, Lord,’ they said, ‘open the door for us!’

12 “But he replied, ‘Truly I tell you, I don’t know you.’

13 “Therefore, keep watch, because you do not know the day or the hour.

In this case, all ten of the virgins had chosen to attend the wedding. They had worked through the steps to arrive at that decision, but even having made that choice, half of them missed another step. They failed to prepare. Five of these young ladies assumed that when they went out to wait for the arrival of the bridegroom, that he would arrive shortly. But that didn’t happen. For whatever reason, the bridegroom took longer to get there than they had hoped, and so they waited, in the dark, longer than they expected. And when five of them went out in search of more oil for their lamps, the bridegroom came and they missed their opportunity to attend the wedding.

Now, we understand that in the real world, friends of the bride would be let into the wedding feast even if they showed up late. But Jesus isn’t telling us a parable to explain how the real-world works. In a series of parables in which Jesus is describing what will happen in the end times when he returns to earth to judge the people of the world, he begins this parable by saying “at that time, the kingdom of heaven will be like…” And so, we must remind ourselves that while a bride might be expected to open the doors and let her friends in after the wedding feast had started, that is not what we should expect at the time of Jesus’ return. There will only be one chance. And those who are unprepared will not get in.

But our decision to follow Jesus, our planning, and preparation are not for nothing. Our generation is not alone in wondering if we have been deceived, or if we have only been wasting our time coming to church, worshiping, and abstaining from things that our culture says are normal, or fun, or profitable. The followers of Jesus in the first century had the same questions. Even if Christianity was legal, failing to worship at the temples and celebrations of the Roman gods came at a price. Being seen as unusual could cost you business and social contacts. On top of that, since many people had expected Jesus to return in their lifetimes, they worried about their friends and family who had died before them. And this is why Paul writes to reassure them in 1 Thessalonians 4:13-18 when he says:

13 Brothers and sisters, we do not want you to be uninformed about those who sleep in death, so that you do not grieve like the rest of mankind, who have no hope. 14 For we believe that Jesus died and rose again, and so we believe that God will bring with Jesus those who have fallen asleep in him. 15 According to the Lord’s word, we tell you that we who are still alive, who are left until the coming of the Lord, will certainly not precede those who have fallen asleep. 16 For the Lord himself will come down from heaven, with a loud command, with the voice of the archangel and with the trumpet call of God, and the dead in Christ will rise first. 17 After that, we who are still alive and are left will be caught up together with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air. And so, we will be with the Lord forever. 18 Therefore encourage one another with these words.

Paul explains that nothing out of the ordinary as happened. People get sick, they grow old, and they die. But because those people chose to follow Jesus Christ, they have not been forgotten. Like us, they considered the message, they decided to follow Jesus, they planned, they prepared, they lived their lives honoring God and following the teachings of Jesus, but now that they had died, they were not forgotten. It was as if they had only gone ahead. On the day that the trumpet sounds and Jesus returns to earth, the dead in Christ will rise first and the living will join them in triumph and celebration.

Following Jesus demands something from us. Joshua told the people of Israel the same thing. When we make the decision to follow God, we must expect that our decision will come at a price. When we choose to follow him, we know that Jesus will expect us to change the way that we live, and to follow his teaching and example. But even if we live out our lives without witnessing Jesus’ return, we do not lose heart.

Because, in death, as well as in life, the message of Jesus is a message that is filled with…

…hope.


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*You have been reading a message presented at Christ United Methodist Church on the date noted at the top of the first page. Rev. John Partridge is the pastor at Christ UMC in Alliance, Ohio. Duplication of this message is a part of our Media ministry, if you have received a blessing in this way, we would love to hear from you. Letters and donations in support of the Media ministry or any of our other projects may be sent to Christ United Methodist Church, 470 East Broadway Street, Alliance, Ohio 44601. These messages are available to any interested persons regardless of membership. You may subscribe to these messages, in print or electronic formats, by writing to the address noted, or by contacting us at secretary@CUMCAlliance.org. These messages can also be found online at https://pastorpartridge.com . All Scripture quotations, unless otherwise indicated, are taken from the Holy Bible, New International Version®, NIV®. Copyright ©1973, 1978, 1984, 2011 by Biblica, Inc.™ Used by permission of Zondervan. All rights reserved worldwide. www.zondervan.comThe “NIV” and “New International Version” are trademarks registered in the United States Patent and Trademark Office by Biblica, Inc.™

Transformational Leadership

Transformational Leadership

October 25, 2026*

By Pastor John Partridge

Deuteronomy 34:1-12 Matthew 22:34-46     1 Thessalonians 2:1-8

Who is it that you remember?

Each of us has lived and worked under people who have been placed in authority over us. Our parents were first. But after our parents we were under the authority of a host of teachers, employers, pastors, club presidents, drill sergeants, military officers, and others. And in each case, whether we thought about it consciously or not, we have filed away the memory of that leader with a personal evaluation, or opinion, of their leadership. Some leaders were good, others were terrible, some were easy to work for, some were hard, and some leaders stood out because they somehow made every one of their subordinates better by their encouragement, support, teaching, and mentorship.

And so, as you remember the leaders with whom you have worked, learned, and served, think about what it was that makes the best of them stand out in your memory. What is it about great leaders, whether that leader was the boss of three employees or the President of the United States, what is it that made them memorable and stand out in our memory as good, or even as great or exceptional?

With that question in mind, let us look at our scriptures for today and see what kinds of leaders we find there, what stands out about them even thousands of years later, and consider how those qualities inform us about how we evaluate leadership today, but also what qualities we should cultivate in ourselves as we lead others. We begin this morning by skipping to the end of Moses’ leadership and the end of his time on earth as we hear the words of Deuteronomy 34:1-12:

34:1 Then Moses climbed Mount Nebo from the plains of Moab to the top of Pisgah, across from Jericho. There the Lord showed him the whole land—from Gilead to Dan, 2 all of Naphtali, the territory of Ephraim and Manasseh, all the land of Judah as far as the Mediterranean Sea, 3 the Negev and the whole region from the Valley of Jericho, the City of Palms, as far as Zoar. 4 Then the Lord said to him, “This is the land I promised on oath to Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob when I said, ‘I will give it to your descendants.’ I have let you see it with your eyes, but you will not cross over into it.”

5 And Moses the servant of the Lord died there in Moab, as the Lord had said. 6 He buried him in Moab, in the valley opposite Beth Peor, but to this day no one knows where his grave is. 7 Moses was a hundred and twenty years old when he died, yet his eyes were not weak nor his strength gone. 8 The Israelites grieved for Moses in the plains of Moab thirty days, until the time of weeping and mourning was over.

9 Now Joshua, son of Nun, was filled with the spirit of wisdom because Moses had laid his hands on him. So, the Israelites listened to him and did what the Lord had commanded Moses.

10 Since then, no prophet has risen in Israel like Moses, whom the Lord knew face to face, 11 who did all those signs and wonders the Lord sent him to do in Egypt—to Pharaoh and to all his officials and to his whole land. 12 For no one has ever shown the mighty power or performed the awesome deeds that Moses did in the sight of all Israel.

There is something that struck me when I read this that stands out because over the last few weeks, we have, at least twice, encountered passages, such as the incident with the golden calf, in which the people essentially asked, “who is Moses”? Moses was unfamiliar and the people of Israel, at several points, felt that they couldn’t trust him, and they struggled with his leadership over them. But here, the people weep and mourn over his death for thirty days before moving forward once again under Joshua’s leadership. The writer of Deuteronomy goes on to describe Moses as being so exceptional that no prophet, in the entire history of Israel, was like him, no one spoke to God face to face as he did, no one performed signs and wonders the way that Moses did, and “no one had ever shown the mighty power or performed the awesome deeds that Moses did in the sight of all Israel.”

That shift, from “who is Moses?” to “no prophet has risen like Moses” is an enormous shift. What was it that Moses did that, in the span of forty years, so dramatically changed the people’s opinion from “who is he?” to “how will we ever live without him?” But those of us who have read the parts of the events that happen between Israel’s escape from Egypt, and the time of Moses’ death have a good idea about why the opinion of the people had changed so dramatically. We will come back to that before we finish but next let us consider a confrontation between Jesus and the Pharisees, this time found in the words of Matthew 22:34-46.

34 Hearing that Jesus had silenced the Sadducees, the Pharisees got together. 35 One of them, an expert in the law, tested him with this question: 36 “Teacher, which is the greatest commandment in the Law?”

37 Jesus replied: “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’ 38 This is the first and greatest commandment. 39 And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ 40 All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments.”

41 While the Pharisees were gathered together, Jesus asked them, 42 “What do you think about the Messiah? Whose son is he?”

“The son of David,” they replied.

43 He said to them, “How is it then that David, speaking by the Spirit, calls him ‘Lord’? For he says,

44 “‘The Lord said to my Lord:
  “Sit at my right hand
until I put your enemies
    under your feet.”’

45 If then David calls him ‘Lord,’ how can he be his son?” 46 No one could say a word in reply, and from that day on no one dared to ask him any more questions.

What we see in this confrontation, is a little bit of politics, a little theology, and a lot of ego. The Pharisees and the Sadducees were rivals, both politically and theologically. The Sadducees were generally wealthier and more closely related to the Roman government, but who also had some strongly held theological beliefs that were quite different than those of the Pharisees. The Pharisees were politically well-connected, and they did have dealing with the Roman government, but they were also more associated with scholars and orthodox belief as well as making an attempt to communicate their theological beliefs to the common worshiper, even if they often completely misunderstood the poor. And so, having heard that their rivals, the Sadducees, had failed at testing Jesus, they obviously thought that their smart guys were smarter than the Sadducees’ smart guys, and they decided to try to best Jesus with a trick question and wave it in the face of their rivals. But it didn’t work. Jesus thoughtfully answers their question without giving them an answer that could be used against him, and Jesus proceeds to ask the Pharisees his own trick question. The understanding of the time was that an elder was always superior to the younger, even if, perhaps especially if, the younger was a descendant of the other. But Jesus asks, if that is so, then how is the Messiah, a descendant of David, described as David’s Lord? And the Pharisees have no answer, perhaps because admitting that the Messiah would be greater than David, was to overturn decades of tradition that demanded that the elders were always right and the younger generations were always subordinate.

But considering our earlier questions about leadership, we notice that there are two distinct leadership styles present in this part of Matthew’s gospel message. The leadership of the Pharisees is driven by its connection to power, its dependence, even its addiction to authority and influence, but also by the ego that drive it to always be wealthier, bigger, more powerful, more connected, more righteous, and more influential. But the leadership of Jesus is different. Jesus’ leadership highlights faithfulness, thoughtfulness, wisdom, humility, and sacrifice.

But again, before we tie these threads together, let’s look at our final scripture this morning that we find in Paul’s letter to the church in Thessalonica in 1 Thessalonians 2:1-8 where he says:

2:1 You know, brothers and sisters, that our visit to you was not without results. 2 We had previously suffered and been treated outrageously in Philippi, as you know, but with the help of our God we dared to tell you his gospel in the face of strong opposition. 3 For the appeal we make does not spring from error or impure motives, nor are we trying to trick you. 4 On the contrary, we speak as those approved by God to be entrusted with the gospel. We are not trying to please people but God, who tests our hearts. 5 You know we never used flattery, nor did we put on a mask to cover up greed—God is our witness. 6 We were not looking for praise from people, not from you or anyone else, even though as apostles of Christ we could have asserted our authority. 7 Instead, we were like young children among you.

Just as a nursing mother cares for her children, 8 so we cared for you. Because we loved you so much, we were delighted to share with you not only the gospel of God but our lives as well.

In his letter, Paul tells the church how things have been going on his missionary journey. But as he does so, he reminds them of who he is and his own leadership style as a follower of Jesus Christ. Everyone knows that Paul was once a Pharisee, indeed he described himself as a Pharisee of the Pharisees. But once he chose to follow Jesus, his leadership style changed to match the example of Jesus. Now, Paul ministers in the face of suffering, enduring outrageous treatment, and is marked by integrity, humility, and faithfulness as he seeks to teach while living and working together alongside the people of the church.

Let us review. In the span of forty years, the people’s opinion of Moses shifted from “who is he?” to “how will we ever live without him?” But why? Why was Moses so beloved by the people of Israel at the time of his death, when they had repeatedly doubted him, argued, whined, and resisted him, and even went behind his back to demand Aaron cast a golden god to worship? The reason was because of the kind of leader, and the kind of a person that Moses was. Moses always sought to do what was right before God, he took his biggest problems directly to God and asked for help, he led God’s people as faithfully as he could, he never asked for more than he needed, he worked alongside of the people and lived his life both thoughtfully and sacrificially. Yes, Moses performed great signs and miracles, but he had done those things even before the times when people doubted him. The transformation of his leadership happened because of who he was, how he lived, and the example that he set, and not because of the power and influence that he had.

The Pharisees came and went. Yes, they had a following, but the leadership style for which they are remembered bears the hallmarks of ego, selfishness, and the search for more rather than on faithfulness and the kingdom of God. In contrast, we remember Jesus by his faithfulness, thoughtfulness, wisdom, humility, and sacrifice. And Paul is remembered for his ministry in the face of suffering, and for his integrity, humility, and faithfulness as he lived and worked alongside the people of the church.

In one way or another, each of us is a leader.

We remember the leadership style of the Pharisees. But we remember that the style of Moses, Jesus, and Paul was altogether different. Only one of those two styles is remembered for the way that it transforms lives.

The first might make you rich, but the second enriches all the people around you and makes every one of your subordinates better by your encouragement, support, teaching, and mentorship.

One is selfish, the other selfless. One is arrogant and ego driven; the other is driven by integrity and humility.

Only one is transformational.

Which example will you follow?


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*You have been reading a message presented at Christ United Methodist Church on the date noted at the top of the first page. Rev. John Partridge is the pastor at Christ UMC in Alliance, Ohio. Duplication of this message is a part of our Media ministry, if you have received a blessing in this way, we would love to hear from you. Letters and donations in support of the Media ministry or any of our other projects may be sent to Christ United Methodist Church, 470 East Broadway Street, Alliance, Ohio 44601. These messages are available to any interested persons regardless of membership. You may subscribe to these messages, in print or electronic formats, by writing to the address noted, or by contacting us at secretary@CUMCAlliance.org. These messages can also be found online at https://pastorpartridge.com . All Scripture quotations, unless otherwise indicated, are taken from the Holy Bible, New International Version®, NIV®. Copyright ©1973, 1978, 1984, 2011 by Biblica, Inc.™ Used by permission of Zondervan. All rights reserved worldwide. www.zondervan.comThe “NIV” and “New International Version” are trademarks registered in the United States Patent and Trademark Office by Biblica, Inc.™